Have you ever had one of those days, weeks, months or even years where you think there is no light at the end of the tunnel and maybe just maybe it has been turned off due to budget cuts in the current economical ‘recession’ climate.

I received a email from a good pal, well lets not even call him a good pal as he is more like a motivational speaker that knows when to chime in and help me get my second wind, this person is usually there 9/10 time when I need him giving the advice that needs to be told or what I really need to hear at that time.

So what did he say this time to me to write about him – well he sent over an email containing the following lines:

When minds and judgements are clouded there’s nothing you can do……. How can you help someone who doesn’t want to be helped??….. How can you find someone who doesn’t want to be found?

What I am trying to get at is its been a long year for me and maybe the same for most with relationship, friends, jobs, wealth and opportunities they have all come and gone, but that which is real is still here and in my life, so before the clock strikes midnight on the 31st I am go to take a moment and do a quick reflection on a few things – those who have bought strife to me and mine in the last 12 months I forgive you, however I wont forget so please know that I remember every good dead that has been done to me and every bad one as well. As the clock strikes midnight and a new year is ushered I will hold a drink up to those who I have surrounded myself with and hope that they all have a good year. I hope 2009 is more eventful and enriching for me and mine. To all you envious, hateful deceitful dick riders that only talk to me when it suits them I have two words for you all fuck you and come see me 2009 I will have something for you…

A wise person once said:

In The End We Only Regret The Chances We Didn’t Take. The Relationships We Were Scared To Have.
And The Decisions We Waited Too Long To Make.There Comes a Time In Your Life When You Realise Who Matters, Who Doesn’t, Who Never Did and Who Always Will.
So Don’t Worry About The People From Your Past There’s A Reason They Didn’t Make It To Your Future….