Casual relationship is a term used to describe the physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have a sexual relationship or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting a more formal relationship as a goal. It is more than just casual sex and different from a one-night stand. Related terms are “pals with privileges”, “friends with benefits”, “friends with privileges” and “sex buddies. There are significant gender and cultural differences in acceptance of and breadth of casual relationships, as well as in regrets about action/inaction in those relationships.

A casual relationship may be part time, or for a limited time, and may or may not be monogamous. The term encompasses friendships between people who enjoy each other’s physical intimacy but do not aspire to be long-term, and may or may not involve parties who desire temporary relationships purely for hedonistic purposes. In each case, the relationship’s dominance in the lives of those involved is being voluntarily limited, and there is usually a sense that the relationship is intended to endure only so long as both parties wish it to.

The question I must ask of you is have you ever been in the situation where you have never meet your partners friends or family? Simple if you have been dating a guy for ‘x’ amount of time and you have never met any of his close friends or family then hey you’re a friend with benefits. Pretty simple and its like being in the friends zone one your there you will never get out of it.

A booty call is not always restricted to a 3am telephone call, it can also encompass other forms of communication, or visitation made with the sole intent of engaging in sex or other forms of sexual release with the person being contacted. Traditionally this social practice, especially the term booty call, is associated with a person calling another person for a sexual encounter after having already established either a casual or more serious relationship involving sexual relations. Let me give you a scenario it’s 3 a.m., you’re horny as hell and you cant be bothered to jump on empflix for the cyber interaction but crave more the human kind however the last thing you want to have to do is impress someone. In this situation, sex can literally be just a phone call away — you don’t have to go through the whole charade of flirting, dating, buying her drinks, testing the waters or guessing what she wants from the situation.

So what do you do if you have just made a booty call however you are not single and your other half has or is about to catch you – Getting caught lying will surely earn you four slashed tires and a drained bank account and all your clothes cut up in garbage bags. If you are about to get caught you have a split second to make a decision either fess up and tell the truth or go AWOL until the heat has died down? I’ve know a few guys in my time that have gone on the run after being caught that the US army would be able to find Bin laden and some WMD’s quicker than they could find this guy trying to run from his other half.

If you must lie, learn the fine art from some of the most high profile people in the game and how they pulled it all off.

Mike Tyson would be one of the most famous people that have been caught out with a booty call/ friends with benefit; he was accused of rape after a female fan turned up at his hotel at 3 in the morning. She claimed she wanted to see where the champ was staying and hangout, at which point he got aggressive and raped her! I for one think that rapist and pedo’s need to be put in a dark hole and never released – however this will be the one time you hear me say this women is a lying little SOB. If you come to my hotel/house at 3am in the morning there is only one thing on yours and my mind and it aint hanging out – if that’s what you want come back between the hours of 10am-6pm. I am not saying the girl asked to be raped, she just put herself in a situation which was not called for. Kobe Bryant got caught out as well – however when his wife found out he was for it, so he pulled out the big guns and I mean big; to the extent she issues a statement saying how much she forgave him:

saying her beloved husband “has made a mistake — the mistake of adultery… I know that he did not commit a crime, he did not assault anyone. He is a loving and kind husband and father. I believe in his innocence.” A very sweet and very supportive statement from a loving wife. Wearing the $4 million, eight carat, purple diamond ring she just received from her adulterous husband.

So what have you learnt from this post, well you learnt that I write anything that comes to my head which after two month of hiatus it was pretty disappointing however I promise to write a better post next time.

Oh and the other thing you can take from this is that in this modern word there is nothing wrong with having a friend with benefit or being one however as long as you can spot the signs it might help you from getting hurt in the long run saving you both time and heartache. If you are going to indulge in some primal activates and satisfy your urges then make sure you do it with a totally willing party. And if you are going to get caught make sure you have a survival bag packed and ready to go.

Bye for now…